Anonymous asked: soo i got a job and after a week of working there they said they longer needed me 😕 it was after this girl asked for full time and they were a bit over staffed .. the thing is there was another new girl there and they kept her. i know i was really nervous so i felt that had a big part to do with it. im super awk n shy and sometimes i feel like its stopping me from what i rlly wanna do, any advice?
Start applying for new jobs. No point on lingering on it! that’s the world for you. Not everybody wants you or needs you. Don’t let it get to you. People get laid off, let go, fired all the time. You sound young, maybe even in high school. That’s definitely not the time you should be worrying about things like this. Just get back out there!
Anonymous asked: do u get harassed for wearing make up out in public? i fuckin hope not... ur beautiful
me and my boyfriend got harassed in a walmart parking lot the other day and they followed us home, but eventually left us alone
but I wasn’t wearing makeup that time. I usually get confused stares from guys, awkward smiles from girls, and black girls always tell me they love my eyeliner
Honestly it’s not bad. ESP since I live in texas
I think most people here are fine with it but just have no idea what to make of me. I know ONE other guy at my college that wears heavy makeup on the daily, but he’s more androgynous than I am. I don’t know him very well, but I think people are a little harder on him because he’s even further away from the comfort zone. I’m a boy, I dress (usually) as a boy and I just do my makeup. It’s a small departure, and people are okay with that. It’s sad.
If there is one thing that I hate, though, it’s when women patronize me. “you’re soooo cute, omg I’m in love with you. Did you do your makeup all yourself? Shut up. OMG you’re a boy and you’re prettier than me. You’re adorable.” I hate that shit! Cut it out cut it out
Anyway yeah I’m by no means being harassed daily, but to say it doesn’t happen or that I’m not treated somewhat differently… That’d be untrue
It’s amazing actually ok so
No boyfriend, no social life, no school, no job= thriving blog with high traffic and influx of followers
Boyfriend, friends, 2 majors 1 minor, working as teachers assistant= tumblr hasbeen
My point is that if U blog less (I’m not saying not at all) but if u blog less, you can have a more successful life
so my brother (age 31) collects Legos ($1000’s of dollars worth of them) and then assembles then and puts them on display, and about once a day since I’ve been home I’ve heard a loud crash from his room and then “ooooh no. GOD DAMMIT. Ooooh no. This is not good. FUCK. This is so bad this is—GOD DAMMIT”
this blog has about 2-3 months tops