Anonymous asked: do you think its disguisting if me and my friend fingered each other when we were 12?

i think that’s just one of the things you do as a kid when you’re trying to figure yourself out. its not disgusting but it’s not sexual either. it just happens. it’s just curiosity. as long as it was consensual then i don’t think there’s any real harm being done. i think if it became a regular thing or progressed very far it could become a problem at such a young age but i think healthy experimentation is highly formative